August 26, 2012
(Proper 16B2) Joshua 24:
1-2, 14-18; John 6: 56-69
Good morning, and grace and peace to you as we move along into these
transitional weeks between summer and fall.
I don’t’ know about you, but the readings appointed for this morning
would catch me at a somewhat uncomfortable place in the temperament, as I so
often describe it, even deep down in my DNA as the descendant of a long line of
Northern European introverted males.
I heard a piece on the radio the other day, in the midst of the early
election season, about who these folks are who identify themselves and even register as “independent”
voters. So they found this one guy who
was registered as an Independent in Wisconsin, I think. And first they asked him about his political
philosophy, values, issues of concern, and actually they all sounded pretty
much on the liberal side of the spectrum.
And they asked him about who he had voted for in the past for President,
and he said as I recall Mondale, Clinton, Gore, Kerry, and Obama. And the interviewer said, “it sounds to me
like you’re a Democrat.” And he replied,
“I just don’t like to be put in a box.”
I guess this is on the political front what the girls on the old “Sex
and the City” t.v. series would call a “commitment phobic” male. And actually it’s quite interesting to type
the words “commitment phobic male” into the Google search engine, which I did
this week. There are quite a few folks
who express some strong feelings on the topic, it turns out.
I remember when I was twelve or so seeing the small one-room house back
in North Dakota that my great-grandparents first lived in when they arrived out
there on the bleak northern edge of the Great Plains back in the 1880’s. About the size of our Narthex here, I would
say, and I think they had not only husband and wife and several kids and maybe
some of the farm animals during those brutal winters. Pretty much I think the rule was, if you had
a strong opinion about something, you kept it to yourself. At least until spring. And no whistling indoors!
I wonder if there isn’t something of this in the phrase you hear fairly
often, when people will say to survey-takers that they are “spiritual but not
religious.” I think that actually can
sometimes a pretty complicated and multi-layered statement. But maybe there is something to it simply of
registering as an Independent. In a
diverse society, where there are a lot of consumerist pressures sometimes not
just in terms of political philosophy but also in terms of religious
allegiance, and a kind of free market commercialization. Buy this product, buy that product, sign up
today! And maybe people sometimes feel
like they’re standing in a used car lot with a salesman who seems to be pushing
a little too hard to get you to sign on the dotted line. Even when you know you need to buy a car and
you are pretty sure this is the one you want, it’s really hard. We know there are games out there, and that
you can get taken for a ride if you’re not really careful, and you’re never
really sure if you’ve been careful enough.
And if the stakes are high enough, if the car is going to cost a lot of
money, or if you’re talking about asking someone to marry you, say, to get back
to the “Sex in the City” girls, it may seem pretty odd if you’re able to manage
that situation without having your blood pressure spike a few points or feeling
at least a little shortness of breath.
We’ll say that it can be stressful even to hold a strong or clear
opinion, much less to express it, in a world where many of those around you,
and even those nearest and dearest to you, are likely to disagree. Risk there, as you know if you’ve ever
ventured a political comment in your Facebook status. So some relationship between being commitment
averse and being conflict averse, perhaps.
Joshua was Moses’ right-hand man, his protégé and the heir-apparent in
succession to the position of leadership in those years as God’s people moved
in that wandering journey from Mount Sinai to the land that had been promised
them, and then through the years of settlement and internal and external
conflict as Israel found its new home among the Canaanites and Philistines and
Jebusites and Hivites and Midianites and all the other tribes and peoples all
around them. But eventually the walls of
Jericho came tumbling down, and it was the end of one chapter, and the
beginning of another, and no one really knew what lay ahead for them. This fluid jumble of wandering Hebrew nomads,
former slaves, the flotsam and jetsam that had joined the rabble along the
way. Now to be householders, farmers,
builders, town and city dwellers. One
people, but in a very new way.
And as he comes to the end of his life Joshua gathers all the elders
and judges and officers of the people, and following the example of what Moses
did first at Sinai and then at the end of his life, as the people were about to
cross the Jordan and enter the land that he would never himself enter, Joshua
calls them to renewal of the sacred Covenant Relationship, reminding them at
this new moment of the Promises that began between God and Abraham, in those
ancient days. “I will be your God, and
you will be my people, and I will make you great, as many as the grains of sand
along the shore of every ocean, as many as all the stars of the heavens, and
through you I will redeem and bless the world.”
The commitment that lay at the very source of their identity as a
people. If anything held them together
and made them one, it was that. Renewed
at Mount Sinai with the Giving of the Law.
The heart of the words of Moses as he commended them to the God who had
brought them out of their Captivity in Egypt and through the Waters of the Red
Sea. And now again, as the new chapter
begins.
As perhaps there is a sense that as we settle down and begin to pay
attention to all the concerns and demands of our day to day life in this new
world, we might find ourselves not remembering that identity, losing track of
those ancient promises and that foundational relationship. As perhaps some new folks have joined us
along the journey or have come into our lives as neighbors, and even into our
families, over these years, who may not themselves share all those deep
memories. And so Joshua, the words
ringing out over the assembly. “Remember
Abraham, remember Moses and Aaron and the sufferings of Egypt. Remember the miracle of your rescue, and the
power that continues to sustain you in this place, and the great destiny that
has been promised.” Remember, remember,
remember. Say it again, and make it
fresh, make it new, make it yours, and ours, today. If you have ever been a guest at a Passover
Seder, this will sound familiar.
Remember who you are, where you come from, why you’re here today.
“Now therefore fear the LORD, and serve him in sincerity and in
faithfulness . . . . And if you be
unwilling to serve the LORD, choose this day—this day!—whom you will serve . .
. . But as for me and my family, we will
serve the LORD.”
You can date forever, weeks, months, even years. I’m a visitor, a fellow-traveler, an
associate. But always as a short-term
rental. Keeping options open. But if
it’s going to be a marriage, and a family, then something needs to be
said. Sooner or later, to fish or cut
bait. “Choose this day.” Certainly Billy Graham caught this years ago
when he decided to give his organization’s monthly magazine a one word name,
“Decision.”
And so this critical moment in St. John’s gospel, as Jesus has set
before both his friends and his enemies the challenge of his mystical and
supernatural character and identity, in language that strikes at first as
poetic and metaphorical, and then, as we listen to the tone of his voice and
look into his eyes, we realize that it is poetic and metaphorical language that
is about something that must be understood as true or not true. So difficult for those of us who appreciate
the gray areas and the ambiguous margins, who will register Independent and
seek spiritual meaning without a commitment of faith. As the guy says to the girl in romantic
comedies without number, “our dating relationship is great . . . so why does
there have to be anything more?”
Jesus the preacher, the teacher, the ethicist, the interpreter of
scripture, the prophet of justice and the advocate of a new social order, even
Jesus the healer, the miracle worker.
All fine with that. But then:
“Those who eat my flesh and drink my blood abide in me, and I in them. This is the bread that came down from heaven
. . . and the one who eats this bread will live forever.” John says, “because of this many of his
disciples turned back and no longer went about with him. “ So Jesus asks, “what
about you?”
The question that echoes. Line
in the sand. Challenge. Invitation.
Proposal. As the Valentine’s Day
card so succinctly puts it, “will you be mine?”
To decide. Commit. Take a stand. Turn the page. Say who you are, and whose you are. Of course it’s a process. We hear the words spoken to us at different
times, in different ways. Perhaps we
hear them countless times, and then one day we hear them and we know they are
now for us. And we respond as we
can. In the mix of personality,
character, life experience, in the hopes and fears of our lives, each of us
individually. Without a template or a
timetable. Knowing his compassion, his
patience, his infinite tenderness, as he knows us better even than we know
ourselves.
But the question spoken in our hearts as we come to the Table for the
Bread of Life, the Cup of Salvation.
Abide in me, as I in you. Will
you be mine?
Walk in love, as Christ loved us and gave himself for us, an offering
and a sacrifice to God.