Tuesday, October 21, 2014
On Retreat
I'll be away from the parish Wednesday, October 22, through Monday, October 27, on my annual fall retreat at St. Gregory's Abbey, Three Rivers, Michigan.
On Sunday the 26th St. Andrew's will welcome as "Supply Priest" and Guest Preacher our good friend the Rev. Canon Cathy Brall. Canon Cathy has served in our diocese as Rector of the Church of the Advent in Brookline and, for many years, as Provost of Trinity Cathedral, downtown. These days as our diocesan "Canon Missioner" she is coach and mentor to new and renewing congregations--and is working closely with us here at St. Andrew's in our emerging mission partnership with St. James Church in the Penn Hills.
Monday, October 20, 2014
Burial Office
Patrick Christopher Malloy
February 12, 1946 – October 9, 2014
October 20, 2014
Good evening, and grace and peace. It is very much for me an honor and a
privilege to share this evening in this service for Patrick Christopher
Malloy. To remember Pat’s life in all
its richness, to honor him for his life and service, to his family, husband,
father, son, and brother--his community, his church, his country. And an honor especially for me to share in
the sorrow of loss with family and friends, with all of you, family and
friends. With love to you, especially,
Vikki, and Brendan and Alyson, Megan and Brian and your girls, who have known
here in the morning of their lives such a loving grandfather. And so many rich memories. As we offer together the prayers of the
church, not just as we say the words but as we gather the faith and life and
witness of the whole Christian family and offer the deepest knowledge and
desire of our hearts to almighty God. As
we hear the words of scripture, the psalms, the lessons, the Good News of Jesus
Christ. Who as we turn to him has
forgiven our sins, and in his mercy and love and by his cross opened the way to
the fullness of life, and eternal life.
As I was thinking about Patrick in preparation for this
sermon I remembered a story in the Bible from the Book of the Acts of the
Apostles. In the 16th
Chapter. Paul and his companion Silas
have come to the city of Philippi, the largest city in the region of Macedonia,
and as a result of the disturbance caused by their preaching and miraculous
healings they are arrested and thrown in jail.
The night passes, as they are there behind bars they sing hymns and pray
together. And then suddenly there is a
great earthquake, and all the doors and locks are ripped from the walls of
their cells. When their jailer sees what
has happened he is overcome with fear—because in that Roman system the penalty
for a prison guard who loses his prisoner is summary execution. But as the dust settles, Paul and Silas call
out to him not to worry. Don’t be
afraid! They haven’t gone anywhere. And he is so overcome with gratitude that he
embraces them and then takes them to his own home, where they eat with him and
spend the remainder of the night. They
speak with him, pray with him, and in a miracle of the Holy Spirit this jailer
and his family become the first Christians in Philippi, the nucleus of a church
family that Paul would later say in his letter to the Philippians was
especially dear to his heart. In the
first chapter of that Letter he says to them, “I thank my God in all my
remembrance of you, always in prayer with joy, thankful for your partnership in
the gospel from the first day until now.
And I am sure that he who began a good work in you will bring it to
completion at the day of Jesus Christ.
It is right for me to feel thus about you all,” he says, “because I hold
you in my heart, for you are all partakers with me of grace, both in my
imprisonment and in the defense and confirmation of the gospel. For God is my witness, how I yearn for you
all with the affection of Christ Jesus.”
And so, let us say this evening, how from the faith of one
man in the Department of Corrections, the Holy Spirit moving through him, the
seed is planted of Christian faith and life that spread in wider and wider
circles to touch so many lives, with generosity and care and love. A way to think about our friend Patrick. I remember how when he toured me around the halfway
house that he was in charge of up on the North Side not long after I had
arrived here back in 1994, he introduced me to several of those who were
there. At first I thought they were
colleagues, fellow workers, because of the tone of respect and affection in the
exchange. Then discovered they were, we
would say, residents of the facility.
But you could tell just in the interaction what kind of man Pat
was. And how that affected in such a
positive and meaningful way those around him.
Small moments. One relationship
at a time.
A friend in the 12 Step Movement years ago taught me this
saying: “the main thing is to keep the main thing the main thing.” And for all kinds of reasons that phrase and
saying has come back to me over the past few weeks, and especially in my
thoughts and in my heart in those last days with Patrick both in the hospital
and at home.
I was remembering glimpses, moments. Some many years ago, some very recent. Lunches.
Ballgames. Quiet
conversations. Vestry meetings and
church gatherings. The pride he felt
when he looked at his kids. The tributes
that so many of his colleagues paid to him at that great retirement dinner at
the Blarney Stone. (Although Pat
certainly put a new spin on the word retirement in the years that
followed!) Of course the importance of
his family. So impressive to me as a
husband, a father. Megan posted one of
her wedding photos on Facebook—Patrick escorting her down the aisle. A beautiful moment, and that wonderful
smile! And how much joy in being a
grandfather! Remembering when the girls
were baptized. What a great day . . . .
Perhaps just right to recall the word from scripture, in 25th
chapter of St. Matthew, the Parable of the Talents, when the Great Lord returns
to see how well his employees have done with the tasks of stewardship that he
had given to them. “Well done, good and faithful
servant. You have been faithful over a
little, I will set you over much. Enter
into the joy of your master.” A great
word to remember today. Well done,
Patrick. Thinking of the courage, and I
think that really is the right word for Patrick in these past years, as he has
had so many adversities. Great
courage. Now, “enter into the joy of
your master.”
Patrick’s family selected the readings for this service, and
I want especially to highlight the reading from St. John’s Revelation, the 21st
chapter, and the wonderful vision revealing the great consummation and
completion and victorious conclusion of God’s great plan for us and for all of
creation. Every tear wiped away. Every sorrow comforted. Every burden and every pain lifted away. And the
one who created us and who sustains us:
“Behold, I make all things new.”
This is the promise of the savior who died on the cross to
cancel our sins and who rose from the dead on Easter morning as the first sign
of new life and life eternal in his name.
A promise for each of us even in these difficult times, when we
encounter suffering, pain, loss.
“Behold, I make all things new.”
In the sure and certain hope of life in Christ Jesus, what
we all have to be about this evening, with all the sadness that there is—what
we all have to be about is to learn to live every day of this short and
precious life in the love of God and of one another, serving God and one
another, knowing that to be such a privilege.
Jesus said, in my Father’s house are many mansions. If it were not so, I would have told
you. I go to prepare a place for
you. And if I go to prepare a place for
you, I will come again, and bring you to myself, that where I am, you may be
also.” “I am the resurrection and the
life, saith the Lord. He that believeth
in me, though he were dead, yet shall he live.
And whosoever liveth and believeth in me shall never die.”
Patrick reminded me from time to time that he was of Irish
descent. I’d like to invite us all as we
remember him and as we commend him to God,
to stand and turn to the blue hymnal, and let us sing together a
wonderful prayer and affirmation of
Christian faith, and a lovely Irish tune: hymn #488. “Be thou my vision.”
Nineteenth after Pentecost
Matthew 22: 15-22
What a dramatic ending to the scene.
We remember Jesus and his disciples in their long festival pilgrimage
from the Mount of Transfiguration, through the towns and villages, up to
Jerusalem. The lectionary sequence for
this weeks of late summer and early fall in St. Matthew. The
triumphant Palm Sunday entry. The crowds
waving branches, singing “Hosanna to the Son of David.” The procession directly to the heart of the
city and what is truly the center of the world, the Holy Temple. I was
glad when they said unto me, Let us go into the House of the Lord. O how amiable are thy dwellings, thou LORD of
hosts! My soul hath a desire and longing
to enter into the courts of the LORD; my heart and my flesh rejoice in the
living God. How true the words of the
psalms are, as Jesus approaches. “The Lord is in his holy temple; let all the
earth keep silent before him.” Yea the
sparrow hath found her an house, and the swallow a nest, where she may lay her
young; even thy altars, O Lord of hosts, my King and my God. Blessed are they that dwell in thy house;
they will be always praising thee.
But Jesus is met not with welcome but with resistance. The haunting words from the opening of St.
John’s gospel. He came unto his own, and
his own received him not. Confrontation. Rejection.
The Temple officials priests and Pharisees, the teachers of the law and
guardians of this sacred treasure, in whose hands rest the stewardship of the
prayers of the whole people of God—they turn away, they seek to discredit him,
they deny his authority.
Perhaps some of the same who met him for the first time when he came as
a young teenager so long ago to this very place. Perhaps some of them even remembering old Zechariah,
who had sung “Mine eyes have seen thy salvation, which thou hast promised to
thy people Israel” when the infant Jesus was brought to the Temple for his
Presentation. Some who would remember
the old Prophetess Anna, who sang to God with joy when she saw Mary and Joseph
and the child.
And as he is confronted, Jesus gives these parables, to help us see
just what it is that has taken place. We’ve heard them now the past three weeks, on
the steps of the Temple, the crowds looking on.
Two sons. One who promises to fulfill the will of the father, but who
breaks his promise, and the other who doesn’t respond at first, but who is
moved in his heart to obey. And the
Unruly tenants. They signed the lease,
made their home in the Vineyard, but when the messengers from the owner came to
collect what was owed, they respond with violence, killing even the landlord’s
son. And the Wedding Guests. They receive the invitation, but they don’t
respond. In their self-centeredness they
refuse to come to the Banquet.
That great line at the end of Matthew 21: “When the chief priests and
the Pharisees heard his parables, they perceived that he was speaking about
them.” The drama of this confrontations,
as the crowds swelled around them.
Then of course to this next bit of the confrontation at the
Temple. This morning’s reading, the
attempt to entrap Jesus with this question about paying taxes. Would he play to the crowds and declare
himself a tax resisters? In which case
the Romans would make short order of him.
Or would he identify with the collaborationists, and undermine his
credibility with those who followed him.
Perhaps they think they’ve got him now, between a rock and a hard
place. One last shot at cutting this
Galilean troublemaker down to size.
But Jesus skips past them. “Give
Caesar Caesar’s due,” sure. But then the
penetrating word. “And give God what is
God’s.” Again the spotlight shifts from
Jesus to the opponents, and the point settles home one last time. The implication ringing loud and clear. As direct an indictment and condemnation as
could be imagined, though with just enough poetry to avoid immediate
arrest.
“’When the owner of the Vineyard comes, what will he do to those
tenants?’ And “They said to him, ‘He
will put those wretches to a miserable death, and let out the vineyard to other
tenants who will give him the fruits in their seasons.’”
The thematic centerpiece of this progression—and it is going to
continue on in Matthew on this Palm Sunday and in the Holy Week ahead at some
length—found in the deep and tragic and heartbreaking irony, that the very
people chosen by God from all the peoples of the earth as stewards of this
promise would not open their eyes and ears and hearts to receive him when he
came. God to Abraham, Genesis 12: “through you all peoples on earth
will be blessed.” God’s holy people are silent. But as Jesus says when the leaders rebuke the
crowds in Luke’s account of this day, “if they don’t shout, the rocks
themselves will cry out.” The vineyard
will receive new tenants. The banquet
hall will be filled with new guests to celebrate the wedding feast of the
king’s son.
The one moment of this drama of course ripples out through time and
space, over all the centuries. Questions
and choices, and for each one of us.
Which of those two sons we are to be.
What kind of tenants in the vineyard.
What we do with the rsvp card in that wedding invitation. Knowing with some clarity that we are
citizens of Caesar’s kingdom, and yet pausing with uncertainty perhaps when it
comes time to pledge allegiance to our king.
All of these echoing a question from Jesus, something like: whose side
are you on, anyway?
Gradually drawing toward the end of the church year. Advent out there on the horizon. The circle completes its path, on our way to
Advent Sunday by way of Good Friday.
And just to echo again the Prologue of St. John, for each of us, to
search in our hearts: “He came to his
own home, and his own people received him not.
But to all who received him, who believed in his name, he gave power to
become children of God; who were born, not of blood nor of the will of the
flesh nor of the will of man, but of God.
And the Word became flesh and dwelt among us, full of grace and truth;
we have beheld his glory, glory as of the only Son from the Father.”
Saturday, October 11, 2014
Holy Matrimony
October,2014 Holy Matrimony
Heather Elizabeth Koch and Todd David Lunn
First John 4; Mark 10
Wow. Good afternoon
everyone! Family and friends . . .
. It is so great to be here today, as we
are witnesses and participants in this wonderful celebration of Christian
marriage. Heather and Todd, I would
simply personally and I know speaking for everyone here today, and with truly a
full heart, express my and our deepest thanks for including us, for inviting us
to be with you as this new page is turned, a new chapter begun. What I
know is in my heart and in all our hearts this afternoon, and Heather and Todd,
I hope you will hear this with depth and sincerity: “this is going to be
something special.” In the deep
mysteries of his Providence, God is doing a great thing here. He has a great plan for your lives, only just
now beginning to unfold in a new way.
Thank you especially for selecting this reading from the Tenth Chapter
of St. Mark’s Gospel for us—truly a gift.
Here at St. Andrew’s it is an
especially familiar reading because of the beautiful—really the magnificent
stained glass window over our high altar, created for us over 100 years ago by
the famous artist Louis Comfort Tiffany.
“Jesus and the Children.” We know
the story. Jesus is preaching a sermon,
when suddenly some families arrive.
Families with kids—and I can’t help but look here at Shelby and Conor,
as our Junior Bridesmaid and Junior Groomsman today. The disciples are acting I guess as ushers
might act. Suggesting that they take the
kids off to the Children’s Nursery. But
Jesus overrules them. “Bring them to
me!” So wonderful. And he takes them into his arms and gives
them his special blessing. A tender and
meaningful moment as we look into the heart of Jesus, the heart of God himself,
to see the depth of his love. As in the
reading from First John, “Beloved, let us love one another, because love is of
God.” Please know today the blessing of
your marriage, your family, and the love of Jesus.
We say marriage is a “sacrament” because in marriage you two become
outward signs of God’s grace and love.
He is going to be using you to communicate his love to others, and that
is the work you are called to do and that we acknowledge and celebrate today. Beginning at home, and then moving outward in
wider and wider circles.
You know, in the Old Testament Book of Exodus, chapter
3, there is one of my favorite stories, about a moment of life-changing
experience, a “vocational” moment, a moment of transformation, about a calling
to a new way of life-- in a way kind of like this moment here today. In
that story Moses is working for his father in law, tending his sheep out in the
wilderness, and one day he sees something off in the distance that looks
strange to him. He moves closer and finally comes to this great big tree
or bush that is on fire, fully engulfed in flames, burning and burning—but no
matter how long it burns, it doesn’t burn out. He watches for a while,
amazed at the sight, and then all at once a great, deep voice comes from the
flame. (I like to think it was the voice of James Earl Jones.) “Take off your shoes, Moses, for
the ground on which you are standing is holy ground.” Holy Ground. That’s my
point.
This is the moment when God tells Moses about his plan
for his life, how from the day of his birth he has been shaped and prepared for
the mission to lead God’s people out of slavery in Egypt and across the
Wilderness and into the Promised Land. God speaks into this world, into
our lives, and what was an ordinary place is now made sacred by that holy
word. And Heather and Todd: in the vows and promises you make today, in
God’s sight and in the presence of these friends and family members, the ground
under your feet is consecrated, and made holy. Not because of what you are saying, but because we believe,
that God’s word is being spoken to
you now. We can imagine
that burning bush, right here, right now.
That God’s holy presence is with you, surrounding you,
above you, and beneath your feet, with richness and blessing and purpose.
The prayers and blessings of this day don’t just happen in this one moment of
your wedding, but they go out with you into your marriage and life together,
from this day forward, and will be around you and under you and with you all the
days of your life. He has great plans for you, for each of you, and
for you together as husband and wife and family. That’s the great and
wonderful thing we celebrate. I don’t know what they are in the
particulars. None of us do. But he is beginning to reveal them to
you now, in this moment this afternoon.
And it’s a privilege for us to be here with you.
And now as Todd and Heather prepare to exchange the
vows that will make them husband and wife, let us pause for a moment and bow
our heads and in the quiet of our own hearts offer a prayer of love and
blessing for them—that they will be surrounded and embraced by love and
blessing all the days of their lives.
The Rev. Bruce
M. Robison, D. Min.
Rector, St. Andrew’s Church, Highland Park
her brought over from the
heritage of Jewish practice o
Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania
Sunday, October 5, 2014
Seventeenth after Pentecost
Matthew 21:
33-46
As we’ve been following the story in Matthew, beginning back in the 17th chapter,
Jesus and his disciples are on a festival pilgrimage from the Mount of
Transfiguration, moving along those dusty back roads with the ever-growing crowds
of the faithful—men and women, boys and girls—joining what we might almost
think of as a grand parade, assembling from all the towns and villages along
the way, toward Jerusalem, which is at Passover the center of the world.
Echoes of Psalm 122 again, as I had quoted from another part of the
same psalm last week. Jerusalem is built as a city that is at
unity in itself. For thither the tribes
go up, even the tribes of the LORD, to testify unto Israel, to give thanks unto
the Name of the Lord. For there is the
seat of judgment, even the seat of the house of David. O pray for the peace of Jerusalem; they shall
prosper that love thee. Peace be within
thy walls, and plenteousness within thy palaces. For my brethren and companions’ sakes, I will
wish thee prosperity. Yea, because of
the house of the Lord our God, I will seek to do thee good.
At the beginning of Chapter 21 we see their entry at the gates of the
city, Palm Sunday. Such a familiar
scene. We hear the cheering crowds
singing Hosanna, waving branches of palm, throwing their coats onto the road to
create the atmosphere of a royal procession. The king has come. And entering through those gates, Jesus and
the twelve and all their company go directly to the Temple, carried along in
the tide of swirling crowds to the holy center of the holy center, the place
which has been indeed from the beginning of time prepared for him, his earthly
throne. In the realms of heaven there
must echo the great acclamation, angels and archangels cry aloud: “The Lord is in his holy temple; let all the
earth keep silence before him.”
But in fact, as we saw last
Sunday, at the Temple he is not welcomed--not by the ecclesiastical leadership,
those whose office would indicate that sacred trust and stewardship. The
official gatekeepers. The stewards of
the holy mysteries. As St. John tells it
in the first chapter of his gospel, “he came to his own, and his own received
him not.” Instead there is
confrontation, rejection. The rebellion
at the very core of our sinful character made manifest. A snarling resistence.
We remember the moment in last Sunday’s readings as the authorities
challenge Jesus and demand that he account for himself. Who do you think you are, Jesus? Who do you think you are? They make an effort to put him in his place,
we might say. Which the highest and
richest irony, since this of all places is
his place. In any event, Jesus then
turns the table on them, with all the crowd looking on and listening-in. Asks them with a bit of clever political
intuition about their relationship with John the Baptist. With the help of their ally King Herod, John
of course has been taken out of the picture.
But the crowds in the street respected John and loved him and believed
in fact that he was indeed God’s messenger.
Hearing him and responding to him in heart and mind as called them to
repent, to turn around, to put on a new mind and a new heart. Knowing that in John God was reaching out to
them with an authentic voice far more meaningful than any word or ceremony or
sacrifice the official clergy would ever give them. When John spoke of the coming of the Promised
Savior, they were filled with hope and believed him with all their hearts.
In any event, John the Baptist is obviously a difficult political subject
for the authorities, and they are knocked a little off balance. A public relations nightmare if they’re not
careful, especially with all the crowds in town for the Passover.
Then Jesus follows with this series of parables. We heard the one last Sunday. Two sons.
One tells his father that he won’t do what he has asked him, but then
has a change of heart and fulfills his request.
The other tells his father that he will do what he has asked, but then
doesn’t.
Jesus isn’t being too subtle here, obviously. The Masters of the Law, teachers of the
Torah, leaders of worship, ministers of the holy of holies. Scribes and Pharisees and Temple Priests: they
say all the right words. They go through
the motions with perfect attention to every rubric. But when it’s time for action, they are
nowhere to be found. Almost as if it’s a
game for them. Playacting.
You can almost hear their teeth grinding in anger. And then Jesus
presses the not-so-subtle approach even more emphatically in the reading this
morning, the Parable of the Unruly Tenants.
This precious treasure placed in their hands, under their care and
keeping. A sacred trust. Holy Israel, the Vineyard of the Lord. But what boils up in their hearts is not
gratitude, but rebellion. Self-centered
hatred. Betrayal. Lies. Murder. They already have the blood of John the
Baptist on their hands, and within days they would see that Pontius Pilate
would rid them of this troublemaker as well.
“This is the heir. Come, let us
kill him and get his inheritance.” Jesus
knows what is in their hearts, and now they know that he knows. And you can hear the buzz in the crowd.
In some ways this one great story of salvation is played out again and
again, in every generation, I suppose, and in every heart. The world resists its true King at the Temple
on Palm Sunday, and so the story goes in every place and time, and in every
heart. The Greek word metanoia, translated “repentance,” means
literally, “another state of mind,” a new mind, a new heart. The first word in John the Baptist’s appeal
to the people. In Matthew 4:17, the
first word of Jesus’ first sermon as well:
“Repent, for the kingdom of heaven is at hand.” Start
new.
It’s not just about being sorry
for something we have done or haven’t done, but about making ourselves
available to him, opening the doors of our minds and our hearts. Not simply a change of external direction and
behavior, though that’s an essential part of it. Deeper.
Create in me a clean heart, O God, and renew a right spirit within
me. Rebirth. Renaissance.
If the Temple authorities will serve God, but only on their own
terms. As it conveniences them. As that service simply confirms what they
already believed. As it secured their
perspective. We’ve heard about
“cafeteria Christians.” Move down the
line. Sample a little of this, a little
of that. Whatever looks good to us. And skipping over whatever perhaps looks like
it’s not quite to our taste.
The word of power at the end of the parable tells them and us all that
we need to know. To the very end this
desire to invite, to warn. Here right at
the very place the Psalm calls the “Seat of Judgment.” And yes, there will be a Judge and a
judgment, a final accounting. When all
the cards are spread on the table. Look at what is going on. Be new, before it’s too late. Said John.
Says Jesus. Before we’ve gone too far. Past the point of no return. Turn again to the Lord and he will have
compassion, come to him, and he will quickly pardon. Renew your hearts and minds, set your feet on
his path.
Again, before the great Temple, the holy of holies. The throne of the High King. The story plays out in our hearts, and in our
lives, in our society, our world, even as we come forward and kneel at the
communion rail this morning. Let all
mortal flesh keep silence.
Holy Matrimony
October 4, 2014
Anneliese Morgan Becker and Daniel John King
Genesis 1:26-28, 31; First
Corinthians 13: 1-13; Matthew 5: 1-12
Wow. Good afternoon
everyone! Family and friends . . .
. It is so great to be here today, as we
are witnesses and participants in this wonderful celebration of Christian
marriage. Anneliese and Dan, I would
simply personally and I know speaking for everyone here today, and with truly a
full heart, express my and our deepest thanks for including us, for inviting us
to be with you as this new page is turned, a new chapter begun. The three of us, and actually with William the
four of us, as he was such an active participant in our conversations, have
been preparing for this day for some time, with meaningful conversations—and it
has certainly been my pleasure to get to know you at this special time of your
lives.
Your family and friends stand with you here, as this page turns, a new
step in your relationship, your family.
We come together, and we can’t help but think, “this is, and this is going
to be, something special.” In the deep
mysteries of his Providence, God is doing a great thing. He has a great plan for your lives, only just
now beginning to unfold.
You both spent some time and gave careful thought to the selection of
the readings from Scripture to be read and shared at this service, and it was a
gift for all of us to hear them. The reading from Genesis underscores the
affirmation that I announced in the Opening Address of this service: “The bond and covenant of marriage was
established by God in creation.” A
reminder that marriage isn’t something we create or invent. We “enter into” marriage, which is something
deep and enduring, and a part of God’s plan for the human family. And the reading from St. Matthew reminds us
this afternoon that this particular marriage is being entered into today in the
context of a larger frame of reference of Christian life and discipleship and
stewardship. It’s not a thing to “have,”
but a life to live, and a work to do. A
vocation.
I want to pause just a moment over the familiar passage in the second
reading--from St. Paul’s letter to the new Christians of a small congregation
in the Greek town of Corinth. It’s a
congregation that Paul was instrumental in founding and clearly a group of
people who were dear to him, much loved.
We don’t know everything about the context of this particular letter,
but apparently word had come to him that there were some disputes and
controversies—social, spiritual, theological, that had begun to cause conflict and division
in the congregation.
Through the whole letter Paul addresses the issues at hand, but then in
the Thirteenth Chapter he goes on to talk about Christian life and conduct in
community, to describe what it means to live together as Christian people, even
when there are serious differences. As
there are always differences, whether in a large community, or even we might
say in a community of two.
Paul offers a kind of recipe, a model, a roadmap, a broad-brushstroke
picture of the deeper themes of what we are and what we can be at our very best
in Christian relationship. How we are
called to live by sharing in the image of Jesus himself, by patterning
ourselves in love following the love that he shared with us. Love is patient; kind; not envious or boastful
or arrogant or rude. It doesn’t insist
on its own way. Not irritable. Doesn’t hold on to resentments. It doesn’t find joy when another is hurt, but
rejoices when good triumphs. It bears
all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.
Thank you especially for selecting this reading for us—truly a gift. We can’t hear this word too often. A
great recipe for Paul as he addresses problems in the early church, but always
also a recipe for all of us to keep close, in our friendships, in our families
and communities, and meaningful that you
have shared it with us today on the day of your marriage. We might almost say that sharing this reading
with your family and friends is the first step, the first example, of the work
you are being called to do in your marriage from here on out. We say this is a “sacrament” because in
marriage you two become outward signs of God’s grace and love. He is going to be using you to communicate
his love to others, and that is the work you are called to do and that we
acknowledge and celebrate today.
The prayers and blessings of this day don’t just
happen in this one moment of your wedding, but they go out with you into your
marriage and life together, from this day forward, and will be around you and
under you and with you all the days of your life. God has great
plans for you, for each of you, and for you together as husband and wife, for
William, as we know him already to be such a great person and presence in our
lives, and for all your family.
That’s the great and wonderful thing we celebrate. I don’t know
what they are in the particulars. None of us do. The future is held
for us in the heart of our loving God. But
he is beginning to reveal them to you and to us now, in this moment this afternoon.
And it’s a privilege for us to be here with you.
And now as Dan and Anneliese prepare to exchange the
vows that will make them husband and wife, let us pause for a moment and bow
our heads and in the quiet of our own hearts offer a prayer of love and
blessing for them—that they will be surrounded and embraced by love and
blessing all the days of their lives.
The Rev. Bruce M. Robison, D. Min.
Rector, St. Andrew’s Church, Highland Park
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